Response to Frequently Asked ?'s

http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...aq=swinger_faq


I found this in the New Members Area to be really helpful, after actually taking time to read it. However it has aroused a few more questions for me concerning swinging. For me, i find swinging inticing and for what I've experienced completely satisfying. However here is what I want to know......I dont feel the need to "get to know" who I'm swinging with. Is this wrong? I could care less about hobbies or their daily life, u know? Isnt that why Im swinging? I mean no disrespect to anyone. I feel the whole point is to hook-up, no strings, no feelings. Thats the fun of it! As far as sharing my feelings goes that is what my husband is for. Thats for me and him.
Are their couples who feel the same as me? I don't want to be rude or out of line. I swing for sex and sex only.

(As stated in Frequently Asked ?'s)

The couple we have met seems to want to move things a little too fast
Things should always move as fast as the slowest person involved. If you aren't ready yet, let them know. They'll either back off and give you time, or they'll decide they aren't interested in waiting. If the later happens, it's their loss not yours. Swinging should be about more than just sex... and if they don't see it that way, then they are definitely losing out. Don't allow yourself to be coerced into a situation where you aren't comfortable. If you are feeling pressured, so "No, Thanks" then if they don't back off, it's time to leave.

My opinion to this:
Okay I see the point on the sex thing,in a way. Sex is more. Sex is control,sensation,the pleasure of watching being watched, more than one set of hands on my body, or maybe Im just a horny,perverted 26 year old female that is twisted in the head? ha ha
With a spouse more twisted than I?

I do agree on the comfort thing. We have our own way to tell eachother if we want to "Bail-Out".