Hey well a lot of great advice : fuse, I totally agree just fell it out a couple of dates then kinda get to know each other a little more intament . And jodi I think I'm gonna play it out also enjoy being single and all that comes with it but also keep a look out for potential partners.
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Did you get insider info on the numbers being drawn for the 6/49?




I couldnt help it

hi fuse. i am also recently divorced and have only been a swinger as a couple. i have the same dilemma. do i date regular guys or swinger guys? maybe i'll just not date at all!!lol. but i think, just keep an open mind and if he likes someone, vanilla or not, spend time and play it by ear. i think that's what i'm gonna do.

My husband and I have a good friend who is now a single male. When we first met him, he was one half of a lifestyle couple. He would love to find another girlfriend, but he is adamant that anyone in a relationship with him will have to be lifestyle. I personally think there is some area between springing it on a woman on the first date, and waiting until she is involved, where you can explore the idea of sexual openness without saying the word "swinger".

I would say date women who seem open-minded, sexual, and willing to use their own judgment. Over the course of a few dates, while you're both still figuring out if you like each other, you can talk about sexual openness in general. After, say, three dates, I would really think you'd be wanting to be more specific. But not in the first hour of the first date.

Thanks- maybe Saturday night we'll finally get lucky. Fingers crossed....

Yea very true I could only imagine what they think when you bring it up but on the other hand would it be staring off on a lie?

If I told my wife I wanted to be a swinger when I met her she'd have run for the hills. Mind you I DIDN'T want to be a swinger, but by bringing it up early in a relationship you are perhaps sending signals which won't be well accepted by most.

PB&J

I wish you the best of luck in your passive search. I think back and some of my greatest memories are with couples who did not advertise an interest in single guys. Things happened naturally and it was nothing short of phenomenal.

I too met a couple from your area that does off-set searches or lists their profile a bit from the smallish town they live in.

Before you know it when you are not looking for it, a GENUINE guy will find you.

Im looking back over my calendar to see just where I was and why I couldnt have changed into a cape at the nearby phone booth and swooped in to save the day..........


Wonder Woman you better watch out!

Okay yes it is odd that cheating is some what more accept than swinging I belive that a couple that swings successfully is a couple that defines the love more than just sex and a couple that are very honest and open to there feelings and can enjoy this life style with out it interfere with there love and or relationship.
Okay and I guess technically I'm not a "swinger" per say being I'm single but I enjoy the life style being that these couples are so open,happy,and honest I would hope that one day my life partner can accept this and see through this image that its just a bunch of sex craved freaks that. Have no morals
P.s.
Thanks for the comment it really had me thinking

Tell us in your own words what 'single male swinger' means to you.

Isn't it odd that cheating is generally more accepted than swinging?

How would you define 'successful swinger'?

Go Jays!!

Thank you TNA - would love to hear your story.

Mine is a bit long. I did not realize it when I wrote it.

What a great story! (Ours is somewhat similar) Thanks for posting this.

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Hey thanks for the great info I understand a lot more now I would eventually what to find someone that will accepted this life style but intill then I will use the great advice to better my single swinging life style thanks agin

Start with reading this: Single Men & Swinging

Then, read the rest of the forums, especially those focused on singles within swinging.

Next thing you know, they'll be getting their own Major League baseball team.

Girl, my scale shows the exact same thing. I weigh more than ever. While, I've had some health issues that helped that be the case, it isn't something I like. Now that those issues seem to be better, I'm set on losing the weight. Unfortunately, the weight does not come off as easily as it went on. I set small reachable goals that turn into the end result. And I work on not getting discouraged.

Good for you and your endeavors!

LOL... once again Canada leads the way. Go figure. I have 3 baseball games to watch this week- good thing I enjoy it!

I dont have a problem with it at all! Thanks for the factoid as it was a hard fact to find on the net. Lots claim ball played in the states around 1846....