- Can a wife be a closet Lesbian
- Finding balance...the "drain" of the LS is starting to sink in
- I can't stand him being with other women...How do I deal with this?
- Wife more comfortable playing without me???
- I feel my husband's posture/demeanor is getting in his way...
- Is this jealousy or something else?
- This guy showed up at her place of work...
- Am I overreacting to my wife's response after she played alone?
- How do I keep my past swinging horrors from coloring our future?
- Helping a Mature Lady Realize Her Sexual Desires
- Wife doesn't want to talk to me about our play with friends...
- "…showers as foreplay and no potty mouths"
- Am I a cuckold?
- Turning someone down during "that time"
- Why does my wife say her coworker is off limits to me?
- She has the Jitters - Suggestions?
- No Oral...would this rule keep you from playing with us?
- Husband agreed "no more play" then broke his promise...
- I feel the friendship is gone...and the guy used my wife
- Bi-women intruding on the dance floor...how do men handle this?
- How do you "gently reject" someone?
- What on earth happened to my penis?
- Our current debate (take a break or try something new)
- Vanilla Couple - Crossing the Rubicon
- How to get spouse's attention back???
- How to get out of a bad play situation?
- Swinging and my play partner's ED...what to do?
- Married male playing alone
- How do I tell my friend I want to have sex with her?
- I don't understand how it's OK for her but not for me
- She suggested I be more aggressive...What does this mean?
- We only want her...what to tell the other couple?
- How do we drop this hot potato after expressing interest in meeting again?
- Fantasy better left unfulfilled?
- Two married couples living together goes bad
- Talking ABOUT other couples
- My fiance says he wants to swing, but I'm scared...
- Broken Rules, Jealousy & Arguments...we want patient and honest help please.
- We didn't "reconnect" with sex after playing and I feel jealous
- I don’t want the lifestyle to overtake our relationship
- A Crossroads in Swinging
- Feeling like 4th wheel... am I being petty?
- Outing ourselves to friends in the lifestyle that we don't want to play with...
- Telling my wife and the other husband to stop...Was I wrong?
- House Parties & Only Playing Together?
- A little confused by wife's reaction to FFM
- Is my girlfriend a cheating swinger?
- Rumor mill - we're in it....
- Communication Conundrum
- How to get from MFM to MFMF?
- Unexpected Email from Wife of "single male"
- "She needs to be charmed, schmoozed, & seduced..."
- Beat by another girl!...:)
- Problems with Single Female
- How do we find some relaxing, drama free fun at the clubs?
- Six years of frustration in the lifestyle...Need advice
- I worry about my girlfriend being with another guy...(What to do?)
- Achieving orgasm through blowjob
- Headed to Meet and Greet after serious injury and I'm self-conscious
- Outed by our 14 year old
- "Not ready" vs not attracted
- Would you play with swingers who "had" HPV (or possibly still do)?
- Went to club with lifestyle friends...they are upset with us. HELP!
- My husband pressures me to pick up guys, and it makes me sick
- We played with our friends and it created issues
- How should we end it?
- How to maintain Friends w/ benefits relationships
- Don't want to be taken advantage of
- No Chemistry with Single Female, Should we try again?
- "I will change that!"
- "You have to charm my wife and make the first moves"...How would you react to this?
- My wife - do you think she wants to play again?
- Mixed feelings about swinging with my new boyfriend
- Playing with others after catching a virus (Molluscum)
- I think my GF got carried away, but we haven't talked about the event
- I had mixed emotions seeing my husband with another woman
- When/How/Should we break it off?
- New couple or try again?
- Nerves
- First time blues
- Jealousy Issues and Many Other Problems
- hiding swing activities from kids!
- If performance issues arise, should the foursome stop.....
- Threesome with Former Boyfriend
- You're Hot Then You're Cold...
- My wife decided she was not interested. What happened?
- Advice please! Second shot at swinging and need to overcome insecurities
- Dom/sub and problems
- Communication with possible playmates
- Wall-flowers in need of HELP!
- Should my SO be seen as a single since I don't play?
- Rule disregarded, needing advice/guidance.
- My first experience with jealousy.
- How to handle different interest levels and approaches...
- Should I tell my wife that I told my friend to hit on her?
- Struggling in Canada...I feel like I'm second, not first
- I felt bad as I could not perform as well as I would have liked
- Do we tell other swingers that this woman gets cold sores?
- Busted..our teenager found out we're swingers
- Can we request the removal of a certification of us on Swing Lifestyle?
- Should we swing with unmarried couple?
- I wouldn't mind him just having sex...
- Lies and Curious Family
- New and trying to deal with the idea of a couple's swap
- Initiating Wife's Sis-in-law into Swinging
- How to fit a third lady for swing play and sexual intercourse into our foursome?
- Any advice for how to handle this? (Involves race)
- Our friends show signs, but denied they are.
- How to Distinguish Good Instinct from Inexperience?
- how to decline repeat play time?
- She can play without me playing.
- My wifes seems so picky!
- Wife changed her mind...
- Will I ever get over our swinging experience?
- Wife is acting uninterested... How to deal?
- What to do when you aren't interested in someone?
- I thought we were sticking together
- Our vanilla friends not so vanilla or are we just imagining it?
- Prediction of how it goes down
- Single male has lost interest in us after we cancelled
- Bothered by what happened during play
- Wife has problems watching me
- Large couple, seeing if others have hook-up problems?
- How to transition from date to play
- first time swinging together - intercourse was uncomfortable for her
- Just what are you doing on here....??
- Wife Wants to Explore and Experience Swinging
- I met a sweet couple, but..
- Anus Touching /rubbing common?
- Getting over shyness...
- How Do We Help These Couples Swing? Tough Assignment
- Children Swing and You find out - How Do You React? Addressing a parent's concerns
- getting a bad feeling from my SO's potential play partner
- Wife diagnosed with herpes, says she'll not swing anymore
- "What they don't know won't hurt them"
- He fixated on one girl because she was skinnier than me.
- Finding old friends again.
- Trying to understand my wifes feelings about swinging.
- Taking my husband's friends in a train without him there
- Couples with trust/control issues?
- Deciding not to play with a couple after a few times together
- My gal is not ok with meeting someone new
- On couples profiles, I'm obsessed with looking at the man's weight...
- Playing at home where adult children live - What are your thoughts?
- I don't ejaculate from oral: How do I tell a woman how to give me head?
- If your wife could no longer swing, would you swing solo?
- How to set up a MFM with a vanilla friend??
- We had a great meet...Now confused...What did we do wrong?
- I played solo with her husband; Do I owe her an apology?
- Boyfriend likes fmf but isn't sure about mfm, and I want both
- Wife full swaps, I'd like full swap, but wife doesn't want me to...
- MFM Help: Concerned about Attachments
- Ran Into Her First Kiss online!!! Do we contact?
- Trust Issue: He discussed a threesome with the other girl and lied to me about it
- Ready for MFM with someone new...but WHO?!
- Secrets and Lies: I had a threesome without his knowledge
- Closing the deal
- Attracted to all couples at house party except one!
- Rock hard for several hours, but wouldn't cum...??
- told friends she'd divorce.....if we did swap
- Wife broke rule...playing without me
- In what order should permission be asked?
- Abstinence before swinging?
- Could he, or they, be stalkers?
- Wife no longer interested
- Rude behaviour at Club!
- Creating a surprise MFM for my wife: Is this a good plan?
- Wife Wanted To Bareback Behind Hubbys Back
- MFM - Please help me be creative
- Problems involving Wife's Sex Video (Looking for an attorney for help)
- Advice for a first MFM experience
- Husband thinks I'm unfair because I limit who he can flirt with
- Should we take a break because of my teeth?
- Husband wants swinging more than our relationship.
- first time mfm.. and his green monster appeared
- Why Facebook Is a Bad Place for Swingers
- HELP need advice from you pro's...first MFM...friend, coworker?
- Boyfriend wants mfm...need advice
- MFM experience with extremely large cock left me feeling dwarfed..
- I want to swing (as a couple) with a married woman...
- Party couple were no-shows...Are we being played?
- My Wife's Jealousy and Control Issues
- She broke rules. I felt betrayed. Am I Wrong?
- Girlfriend messed up...did full swap
- Not sure how to take this...they are stingy with their certifications
- Meeting with single female, left me feeling uncomfortable ???
- I need some advice...too much flirting - PLEASE help!
- WHY am I having trouble dealing with the women he talks to online!!!!!
- We don't want couples latching on to us after we've played.
- Daughter caught us - How to handle this?
- Bad Experience with hosts at club, should I say something or let it go?
- playing solo "discreetly", should I assume he's cheating?
- on-premise club strikeout, what'd we do wrong?
- Private play for my husband fell through - what happened?
- Getting Vanilla Couple to Swap Mates for Sex
- Mrs. Robinson experience and the aftermath
- Lie or tell the truth about breaking rules/boundaries?
- Oral Problems
- Swinging and BDSM: Hubby is having self-esteem issues
- Drama created at club by female half of divorcing couple
- Is it OK to meet someone separately?
- I don't know why my wife is doing these things
- Family has suspicions!
- Feel like we're being friend dumped.
- My sister and her husband teasing me? What should I do?
- Mrs expressed interest in several men at one time
- Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries
- I feel like I'm failing her...how do I solve this issue?!?!
- Moving from Couple to Single Male
- fair or not
- Do women really have to be in control?
- Lifestyle not for me? Your opinions welcome
- Outed by Vanilla friends...my wife received this email
- Uneven
- Overcoming a fear of GERMS
- How to say this to another couple..??
- Embarrassing Problem
- nervous I want to take little steps
- paying for hotels
- Is it ok to ask someone if they have played before?
- A club shared my email address with a third party
- Confused by the mixed signals they are sending
- Potential partners and the risks they take...
- Approaching vanilla male for threesome. Best way?
- Guy in a couple is "afraid" of breastmilk?
- really kill the mood for me
- How to get the slim ladies to want the BBW
- Nice way to express disappointment?
- I say WHY RUSH?...But she wants to.
- Why the wife never fantasizes?
- She wants to.... she doesn't want to
- Wife prefers seperate play...
- new couple-new scenario
- Wife got pregnant during swinging on purpose
- I don't know what to do...
- What did we do wrong?
- He is a swinger; this is all new to me
- First verbal encounter
- New Proposition - MFM with a co-worker
- I can't believe her behaviour
- Drama due to vanilla/non vanilla friends together
- Tattoo - Sign of attachment?
- Do we have to give them a second chance?
- If I tell my friend the truth he would be deeply insulted - Advice Please
- After first time, he's not sure about continuing
- Pandora's Box has been opened...
- Monkey Wrench
- Is it "One for the Team" if the chemistry is light
- health issues causing problems in the group
- Are we just unlucky ?